Sometimes a friend or relative will share opinions online that you don't agree with, but you care about them and value your relationship.
So, what can parents tell their teens about coping with disagreements online?
1. Think before you post:
What is the other person going through that might explain this behaviour?
What do you want the other person to do differently?
What do you want to get out of this argument?
Realistically, how likely is it that the other person will listen to you?
Remember, a public fight could stay online forever, so in most cases it's better to chat in private.
2. Have realistic expectations:
Recognise they probably won't change their views overnight. But you might be able to negotiate a way forward.
3. Disagree respectfully:
DO: Approach the other person privately, in most cases.
Keep your tone friendly, or at least polite.
Check where they are getting their information from.
Listen to them.
Acknowledge any points you do agree on.
DON'T: Be sarcastic or patronising.
Embarrass, insult, or threaten them.
Use offensive emojis.
4. Learn more:
Read these great tips for teens on dealing with arguments and conflicts.
- Jessie Mitchell, Dolly's Dream
